Problem

I was just thinking, if all the problems we had were like maths problems where there's a standard formula to it, a standard solution to it, everything would be so simple. We wouldnt need to ponder about it, wouldnt need to get affected by it.
I just realized some things today.
Sometimes when people say something, you can listen to them, but dont take it seriously. Because they might not mean what they said, and in the end, its you who will get yourself hurt.
And humans, are really superficial. They only judge by what their eyes can see. Why didnt anyone judge using their hearts, on what they can feel? You saw this, you saw that, and you implied, you assumed, you misunderstood others. Do you know how hurtful it feels?
It really hurts when you believed and trusted someone, but just to realize that the person didnt meant what he/she said. No, worse still, the person didnt even believe you. Sometimes when you are so depressed, so irritated, having lots of problems, when someone lends you a helping hand, a listening ear, you tend to be very grateful to that person. But, it hurts after knowing that behind every words that was said, there's a different story to it. They dont mean what they said.
Sometimes you know some words are lies, but you still stupidly chose to believe. Coz you thought, maybe, maybe there is a possibility it might be true. You just didnt want to give up on that small little possibility.
Yes, its true that some people may have helped you. But its time to learn not to trust people too much.
Problem, it always exist. Just that we are too good at pretending. Pretending as if nothing happened, no problems exist.